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This
article tells you about the meaning of the words Karva Chauth, stories and
rituals associated with the festival and why it is celebrated essentially in North
and North western India.
A variety of festivals, one more interesting than the other, and unique customs make India a very wonderful and lively country. These festivals and rituals are a true expression of its rich cultural heritage. The celebrations are a source of joy and happy memories such that even after festivals are over the sense of celebration resonates in their minds.
One such interesting
festival is Karwa Chauth (KC in short) – a festival i.e. very important for
married women. All married women celebrate KC with immense love, purity and
joy. Every married woman, regardless of her age, waits for this auspicious day.
The festival
is very popular in North India esp. amongst newlywed Hindu and Sikh couples.
However, thanks to Hindi TV serials KC has got known across India.
During
the festival married women fast for the wellbeing, prosperity and long life of
their beloved husband. Fasting is supposed to be rigorous although woman adjust
the norms to suit their health for e.g. my mother fasted only till lunch
because her body could not take it.
The
preparations begin weeks before the festival; during this time markets
are full of colourful pooja items like Karwa, decorated thalis and murti of
goddess Parvati .
Why
is Karva Chauth popular in North India?
I posed
this question to my Dadaji (father’s father) years ago. He said since North
India was perpetually under attack from foreign invaders men had to constantly
fight wars. Every war had casualties. Therefore, during this festival woman
prayed for the long life of their husband. Even though India is no longer faced
by similar invasions the tradition has carried on.
It is a
cultural festival and celebrated by the people of Punjab, Hindu & Sikh,
because foreign invaders invariably attacked undivided Punjab first.
Even
though India is no longer faced by similar invasions the tradition has carried
on.
What does the word ‘Karwa Chauth’ mean?
The word
KC has a specific meaning. Karwa or Karva means earthen pot while chauth means
fourth. So, Karwa Chauth is basically about offering Arghya to the moon using
‘Karwa’on Chaturthi tithi during the
Hindu month of Kartik.
KC is
observed on the fourth day of Krishna Paksha in the month of Kartik. This
festival is mostly celebrated in the North and North-western parts of India;
primarily in Punjab, Rajasthan, Haryana, Gujarat, and Uttar Pradesh.
Stories
associated with the festival
The first
goes back to the Mahabharata. When Arjuna went to the Nilgiris for penance the
rest of the Pandavas faced many problems. At that point their wife Draupadi
remembered Sri Krishna and asked him for help who advised her to observe the
fast of KC. Draupadi followed the instructions subsequent to which the Pandavas
overcame their problems.
Another story
is of a devout wife Karwa. One day her husband was caught by a crocodile and
sure to face death. Because of love for her husband she bound the crocodile
with cotton yarn and asked Yamraj, the Lord of Death, to return the life of her
husband. When Yamraj refused she threatened to curse him. Being afraid of her
devotion Yamraj sent the crocodile to hell and blessed her husband with a long
life. Such is the power of a wife’s devotion.
There are
many similar KC stories of brave women who brought back their husbands from the
death knell. The story of Satyavan and Savitri, Veeravati are also associated
with KC.
Who
celebrates Karwa Chauth?
Karwa
Chauth is mostly celebrated by married Sikh and Hindu woman who fast for the
long lives of their husbands. The idea behind celebrating this festival is to
pray and wish for the longevity, well-being, and prosperity, of the husband.
This festival celebrates the beautiful relationship between husband and wife.
In
contemporary times many men have started fasting and participating in the rituals.
It has become a way of expressing love for their wives or are influenced by the
western concept of equality. Any way it is nice to see men fast for their
wives.
In many
states unmarried women also fast to get the desired life-partner.
The
rituals of Karwa Chauth
Although
the rituals of KC vary by region there are certain common customs which we
shall explain in detail.
On this
day mainly Shivji, his wife Parvati and sons Ganesha & Kartikeya are
worshipped. Goddess Chauth Mata is also worshipped by women.
Karwa has
a special significance on this festival; it is basically a small pitcher which
is used for offering Arghya and given
as charity at the end of fasting. Usually, fasting and prayers are carried out
in groups.
Fasting
is an important part of KC. It starts with sunrise and women break it only
after offering Arghya to the moon. Most married women do not even take a drop
of water until moonrise.
In some parts of India, married women wakeup in the wee hours to eat "sargi" which is a special meal prepared by their mother-in-laws. Sargi consists of fruits, home cooked sweets,
mathri and dry fruits. It is a gift or a token of a mother-in-law’s gratitude to
her son’s wife who prays for his long life and prosperity. After eating Sargi
women stay without consuming water and food all day i.e. until the moon rises.
Therefore,
Karva Chauth is the festival that creates a special bond between the mother and
daughter-in-law. In some parts of north India, parents send gifts and sweets to
their married daughters.
Women
dress up in bright and colourful traditional dresses. Newlywed ladies wear
lehanga choli or their wedding sari. They apply mehndi and wear heavy jewellery
on this auspicious occasion.
Colourful
rangolis are drawn in the front yard and melodious folk songs and bhajans sung.
In every
household, traditional and delicious food items are prepared but this delicious
feast is partaken only after the evening puja.
The thali
or plate of Karwa Chauth is decorated with gota patti and sparkling
cloth-piece. Sweets, fenia, dry fruits, matthi and kheer are carefully arranged
on this plate.
After morning
preparations, women in the neighbourhood get together at someone’s household
for the evening rituals. They decorate the pooja plate with an idol of goddess
Parvati. A few hours before moon rise old ladies narrate the story of the
Karwa Chauth Mahatamya.
After
this ladies sit in a circle and pray to goddess Parvati for their husband’s
welfare and marital bliss. Lastly, the women chant their holy hymn and pass
their pooja thalis around in the circle. After pooja, women wait for the moon to
rise.
At
moonrise, women begin lighting beautifully decorated diyas; they also offer
prayers to the moon while chanting mantras. Beautifully decorated Karwa or clay
pots are filled with milk, water, coins or precious stones. They see the moon
through a round shape sieve and offer Arghya to the moon using their ‘Karwas’.
After that, they look at their husbands through the same sieve and pray for his
long life.
The fast
is broken when the husband offers his wife the first sip of water and morsel of
food. This is followed by a sumptuous feast. On KC husbands shower their wives
with gifts for e.g. jewellery.
These
traditional rituals add charm and bliss in the relationship of husband and
wife. Love and care is the foundation of any marriage and festivals like KC
make this foundation even stronger.
Karwa
Chauth is after all a festival of love, care, faith and devotion.
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