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Indian society has this ability of continuously
reforming and reinventing itself without losing its inner core. This has
enabled us to adjust to changing times, imbibe the best from other societies
and progress continuously. For instance who
would have dreamt in the 1950’s that a Chennai girl, Indra Nooyi, would be the
CEO of PepsiCo for twelve long years. Acceptance of
change is a pre-requisite to growth after all.
The 19th century Bengal was very different from the Bengal that we see today.
Much like elsewhere Bengal was plagued by extreme conservatism, regression and misogynistic attitude towards women. Women
weren’t allowed to step out of the house, mingle with men except for their
husbands and close relatives. Further they were explicitly taught to obey their
husbands and be a focal point of their desires. They had little or no access to
education.
Just to
put matters in perspective, “The British Parliament granted franchise to its
women in 1918. Down to 1850 A.D. in England, a woman could not take a walk,
much less a journey, alone, nor could she ask a fellow worker to visit her, unless
the worker was a girl. When two ladies spoke at a meeting convened for the
purpose of supporting a women’s cause in Parliament, a Member of Parliament
said “Two ladies have disgraced themselves for speaking in public”. When the
House of Commons was built in 1844, it was great difficulty that a Ladies
Gallery was sanctioned.” Apparently, gender discrimination wasn’t only
prevalent it India. It then existed across the world.
Having
said that we must remember two 18-19th
century queens whose names are immortal. First is Ahilyabai Holkar of Maheshwar, able ruler and
administrator from 1767 to 1795. And second is Rani of Jhansi’s rebellion in 1857.
The above examples perfectly portray how the Indian society was
reconstructing itself, because you know what they say, ‘change’ always finds its way
into everything, despite all the hurdles, blockades and in this case patriarchal
norms. Therefore, change did come to Bengali
society in the form of a rebellious, wilful and strong lady, Jnanadanandini
Devi Tagore. And this article enables you to delve
into her story.
So who was Jnanadanandini Devi Tagore?
Jnanada
was the wife of Satyendranath Tagore, elder brother of Rabindranath Tagore and
the first Indian ICS officer appointed under the British Raj. She hailed from a
middle class Kulin Brahmin family from Jessore (now in Bangladesh). At the age
of seven and in 1859 she was married to Satyendranath. This way Jnanada became
the eldest daughter-in-law of the rich and prestigious Tagores of Jorasanko.
Her
marriage was followed by a life of confinement and strict ‘Abarodh or Purdah’
system imposed upon Tagore women and the women of Bengal in general. Even
though her husband openly opposed the Abarodh system and advocated women’s
rights it was difficult to take on the family.
Unhappy
with his wife’s condition Satyendranath took Jnanada along when he received his
first posting as an Assistant Collector and Magistrate in Bombay Presidency.
This move proved to be a turning point in Jnanada’s life and transformed her
into a social reformer.
Jnanadanandini’s contribution in social reformation of Bengali societyWhen
Jnanada moved to Bombay (now Mumbai) her life changed altogether. It was
challenging yet exhilarating to be amongst people who thought very differently
from the Tagores.
Wherever she went with her husband she picked up new things which opened her mind. Most importantly she realized that there is life
beyond the four walls of your home and women can play a bigger role than just producing children.
She
shared her learnings with fellow women of the Tagore family home in Jorasanko.
Slowly and steadily the impregnable walls of the Jorasanko mansion began to fall. The rebellion started by Jnanada in her home spread like a wildfire across
Bengal.
She
contributed, in six ways, to women empowerment and societal reformation during
the Bengal Renaissance period (1772 to 1941). The details are -
The first woman to cross the threshold of Abarodh
Tagore women entered the house as child brides and left only when they died. They were kept within their quarters called Abarodh.
This entire system was called the Abarodh or Purdah system. If women went out in
some extreme and rarest of the rare cases they took the back door. They
couldn’t step foot in the front veranda or the ‘Bar Mahal’ i.e. the
men’s quarters. They couldn’t even interact freely with employees and servants.
In a city
that was thousands of miles apart Jnanada lived by different rules in Bombay. She
also went to England on her own, apparently the
first Bengali woman to do so!
She broke
the boundaries for herself and the women of Calcutta (now Kolkata). Jnanada
literally opened the doors of Abarodh for Tagore women. We have to understand
that when the daughter-in-law of one of the most influential families of Bengal
left her home, travelled abroad she made other prominent families relax and
extend their boundaries for women. Not to forget that Jnanada inspired women
within the Tagore household who now began looking up to her.
When
Jnanada returned from her tour the family noticed the change in her, both as a woman and as a person. She was
now more independent, confident, and mature and acknowledging
this new person made her realize how important it was for a woman to have a
life outside home.
Someone
had to shake the patriarchal walls that surrounded the Tagore mansion and fate
had chosen Jnanada. She now started sharing her thoughts and ways of living
with her companions and the younger generation. Now she urged women to step out
of their homes and lead a social life rather than be confined to their homes.
The mind behind Brahmika Sari
Since her
husband was now the Assistant Collector of Bombay she had to dress
appropriately. In 19th century Bengal women literally
wrapped themselves up in a sari. They covered their faces with a ghumta or ghunghat up to their chests. This
style of draping was highly uncomfortable, not graceful and made sitting,
standing and walking inconvenient. Plus there was no such thing as a blouse or
jacket to protect women during cold nights.
So inspired
by Parsi women, Jnanada devised her own style of draping a sari in the family. This style had pleats tucked in the
waist which looked elegant and made movement much easier.
On return
to Kolkata she spread her style of draping a sari. She did not stop at that and
gave an advertisement in the newspaper inviting women to come and learn from
her. Much to her surprise hundreds of women showed up at her doorstep. Soon
enough all the Brahmo women adopted this style which came to be known as ‘Brahmika
Sari’.
It is
thanks to Jnanada that today Bengali women carry a sari gracefully and
comfortably. She is largely credited for popularising the modern style of draping
a sari (which is inspired by the Nivi drape) not only across Bengal, but India
as well. Apart from sari she introduced Bengali women to the concept of
chemise, blouses and jackets.
She introduced the concept of nuclear family
Because
of who she was and what she stood for Jnanada clashed with her father-in-law
Debendranath Tagore very often. Supported by
his wife Sarada Sundari he opposed Jnanada in every possible way. The conflict
split the Tagore household into two which forced Jnanada to move to another
bungalow with her husband and children. Theirs was apparently the first nuclear
family across entire Bengal. She chose non-conformity to ultra-conservatism and
set the trend for the rest of the Bengali society.
Social clubs for women
Upon returning from
England Jnanada brought with her many English customs that were unfamiliar to
Indians. One of them was tea and breakfast clubs. She set up breakfast and
evening tea clubs within the family where everyone could interact with each
other. These interactions strengthened the bond between family members and
importantly gave women an opportunity to express themselves. They learned to have
intellectual discussions instead of indulging in petty politics. Later she
propagated this idea in the larger society as well.
First woman to act in plays
The
Tagores were very artistic and creative people, women included. An interest in
arts, literature and culture was always encouraged. Music, drama and books were
an integral part of their lifestyle. This was however mostly restricted to men till
Jnanada changed the rules.
For
starters, she assisted Rabindranath in writing plays; offered insights and
improvisation etc. Probably this drove her towards acting. As a source of
in-house entertainment the Tagores performed plays in their house. Mostly
elders watched and the younger generation performed. Earlier men even took up
female parts in plays but Jnanada encouraged women to take up acting.
After
performing dramas in her own house for months she acted in a play called Raja
O Rani publicly at another family property in Brijitalao, Calcutta (Now
Kolkata). This invited a lot of criticism but opened the doors for other
women to act in plays.
A pioneer of literature, arts and culture
Jnanada wrote
numerous articles for various magazines and newspapers published from Kolkata. Her
articles were mostly centred on nationalism, freedom and patriotism. Through
her articles she often urged people (mainly women) to unite against the British
and take part in the freedom movement. In this respect she followed the footsteps
of her sister-in-law Swarnakumari Devi who was the first female writer to gain
prominence in Bengal.
Her
second literary initiative was a children’s literary magazine in Bengali named Balak.
Much like her other work the magazine was an overnight success.
This is the
story of Jnanadanandini Devi Tagore – a bold, tough, ingenious and fearless
daughter-in-law of the Tagore family. She lived for ninety one years and
dedicated her entire life to social restructuring. Yet the Tagore family were
not particularly proud of her. The conservative side of Bengali society
despised Jnanada her and did not acknowledge her as a symbol of the modern
Bengali women. But this did not affect
Jnanada or stop her.
Jnanada
gave women a new direction. She said there were multiple facets to a woman’s
life of which being a good mother-wife is only a
part. Every woman has certain duties towards herself too.
The
Bengali women of today are grateful to Jnanada D Tagore. The question is how
many of them know about her? This article hopes to change that.
References ‘Jorasanko’ by Aruna Chakravarti
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